First and foremost, let’s begin this post by warning anyone that doesn’t have a sense of humor to cease and desist immediately. Ion’t need anyone hating on those of us with a few jokes in our hearts. Real talk.
Now if all minds are clear, we can begin.
More times than a little bit, we are forced to be reminded of how bad our sweet little kids are – in the grocery store; during a meditational church prayer; inside a restaurant, a movie theater, or the laundromat. And after we’ve hung our heads in shame, hidden under a table, rock or some fat lady’s dress, which is of course always the first thing we do from sheer embarrassment of raising such sweet-faced spawns of the devil, we pull out the Parents’ Handbook for Dummies: A Guide to Punishing Kids Who Couldn’t Care Less About Their Weak Ass Parents or Their Dumb Punishment Attempts. Surely we know that this handbook is nothing more than a reminder of how blunderous we are as parents for not being able to get a grip on our kids in private and often more in public. “No more to that,” I say! In this new day and age the finger is no longer pointed at the ineffective parent!
Stick with me while I explain.
Once upon a time bad behavior could be blamed as the result of a timid housewife, an absentee father or even a poor environment of a child’s neighborhood. But now that we’ve skated pass the 1950s, it’s time that we place blame somewhere else. Let me ask you. If [working] parents spend more time at work than they do at home, where do children spend most of their days? No. Not a juvenile detention center. They spend all of their time at school, so naturally the first person to blame for the disruptive behavior of the child that no one wants to babysit is none other than the teacher!
Teachers come into the classroom with one agenda: to teach. They teach math, science, social studies, language arts, foreign language, even religion. But they don’t teach discipline. Why the hell not? If they know that 69.3% of students in each classroom are offensively bad, why don’t they spend less time writing notes home to parents in an effort to remind us of how we’re failing as guardians instead of drafting up a damn disciplinary education standard to get those attitudes in check? There’s no need to tell us about our kids’ discipline problems. We already know they’re bad as sh*t. What they’re telling us is that there is a lack of effort and responsibility in our classrooms. Our teachers are too lazy to tell our brats to shut the hell up! If they are spending more time with our kids than we are, then it’s only fair that they hold more of a percentage in the area of disciplinary responsibility, right? It’s just common sense.
Hell, we spend eight hours a day dealing with bad attitudes, unrealistic demands and never-ending chores, all for little to no paycheck. When we get home, we are expecting the teachers to bombard our kids with multiple chapters worth of homework, detention slips and drained energy from sending their bad asses back and forth to the principal’s office. When they send our kids home all well rested and free from studying, they are only telling us that they do not value the progression of our children’s citizenship.
Imagine, leaving the discipline up to the parents. As if we don’t already have enough on our plates.
When the kids finally graduate after spending 6 or 7 years in high school, who takes the credit for them graduating? Teachers, of course. Why be all finicky when it comes to their behavior?
Look, teachers. All we, as parents, are trying to do is be fair. We’re simply trying to give you the credit where you deserve it and raise a stink when you fall short. Teach the damn kids some manners and respect so that we don’t have to be called bad parents when they come home with these nasty attitudes. Stake your claim in the effort of raising some good standing citizens while they’re still young. Just keep in mind that the next time one of our kids comes home with some foul language that you’re going to get your ass kicked. Since our feet aren’t super-glued to the playground, they are your responsibility from 8:30-3:00. So you need to be aware of what they’re talking about; whom they are messing with; when they skip class; when they skip school; fight; fuss; sleep; pout; whine; cheat; and/or lie. You’re getting paid to do the same sh*t we are too tired to do for free.
Now if you think this letter is too much of a big pill to swallow, relish in the thought that 90% of any effort is getting started. And trust me, it’ll probably be easier to digest if you hit the bottle first.
Quote of the week: “Education is when you read the fine print. Experience is what you get if you don’t.”