So this morning you woke up to a warm body next to you and was served breakfast in bed with the groceries you purchased with your hard earned money. Did you miss something? Somewhere during the night of your wild, scandalous and sadistic booty call, your FWB (friend with benefits) got the impression that your good wet-wet was an open invitation to a monogamous relationship. News flash, moron: IT WAS JUST SEX!
More times than often one of your bed pals can get the wrong impression with just one twist of the body, one bounce of the rod or one moment too long of cuddle time and suddenly think tomorrow is the day you two set aside to go ring shopping. This is what happens when one person gets a little too ancy about falling in love. We’ve discussed this before in our Sex Ed 101 class. Bumping pelvises is not the same thing as the pretentious promise, “I do.”
You should not have any regrets for wetting your whistle with someone else’s body spit. It’s one of the many joys of life; one of the rewards for being single. Some may argue it’s one of the rewards for being a lying, dastardly, cheating bastard (for those who are already committed). The sex may have been great last night. It may have been even greater this morning, because there’s nothing like a ‘morning after’. However you must be clear to the person you’re boning that it’s nothing more than sex – a desperate, yearning need to be filled with the pleasures of someone else’s sexual and willing desire. After it’s all said and done, it’s more than likely that you’ll want them to dissipate into the sheets as if they were never there (once you’ve experienced the big “O” and washed their scent off your body of course).
Booty calls are good but they’re also misleading. So the next time you invite someone over to your place to quench your horny thirst, be sure to have a visible stack of “booty call agreements” sitting on your nightstand.
A) You want your partner to know they’re not the only one you’re screwing. That way there’s no reason for them to get their hopes up of an oncoming relationship, no matter how good the f*ck is.
B) They’ll know what to expect from the night, and
C) What you expect from them.
See sample booty call agreement below:
If they are still blinded by your juicy va-jay-jay or steel power jack, feed them the same old clichés you’ve fed to all the other losers who misinterpreted your late night romper room calls:
Sometimes all a person needs is a good ol’ ego boost, a $20 bill or a scathing threat to get the message that you got what you needed from them and that’s all there is to it. It doesn’t take much effort to give anyone the boot once they’ve signed that agreement. It’s a binding contract. It takes more effort to let them stay and lead them on than it does to be honest and kick them out. They’ll be back. They’ve already shown you how horny and delusional they are. At this point, you have the upper hand.
Quote of the week: “It is not uncommon for slight acquaintances to get married, but a couple really have to know each other to get divorced.”
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